There’s no one out there for me

There are no good guys left out there for me

Is that how you feel? Is that how it seems?

I recognise that there may be a part of you that believes there is no one out there for you.

If so, there will be good reasons why you feel this way and I acknowledge and honour how you feel.

But when you do feel this way, you are right, there is no one out there for you, because

whatever we believe is true!

And the longer we believe it the more entrenched the belief becomes.

This is why it’s really important to change how we feel about what we DON’T want.

For the more we focus on the negative in our life and tell ourselves the same old story:

  • There’s no one out there for me.
  • I don’t know how it works for other people.
  • There are no decent single men in this town etc.

The longer we stay stuck.

Maybe you can say, “There are no decent men,” in a small village but you really can’t say that in a town and certainly not in a city with a population of many thousands of singles.

The truth is, there are always single men in your area (although there may be other reasons why you don’t want to hook up with someone local, but that’s another story).

If you don’t believe this, you’re stuck in a negative belief that’s a self-fulfilling prophecy – until you change it.

Changing our beliefs

We have to be in an expansive energetic state to open the door to what we really want.

Living in small village energy, even though it’s cute for some folks who have got to that point in their life where they want to settle down, is absolutely useless for a single girl who is seeking love.

No one leaves a town or a city looking for more opportunity in a village.

There are no free men when you’re stuck in that insular, contracted slow paced energy.

Fast expansive energy is the feeling you want, for this is the place of opportunity. Yes, to meet that man!

Now you will hear lots of single girls in large towns and cities saying that there are no good men out there for them.

Even though in their frustration it certainly seems that way, this is utter nonsense!

Have a look back at your own “dating” experience and that of other girls around you. Have you all been telling and reinforcing the same story through your frustration?

Just so you know, I’m not picking on women here. I’ve heard the same story time and again from guys I’ve worked with over the years. And I tell them exactly the same 🙂

It’s massively important to acknowledge, honour, and deal with this negative belief, “There’s no one out there for me, no one wants me etc.”

I get it, I really understand these crippling negative beliefs.

I have had all these negative beliefs and had to deal with them all from the small to the big “I’m a worthless heap of you know what beliefs”

20 years alcoholic has a habit of destroying any good feelings someone has about themselves.

And it did a good number on mine.

But I don’t feel like that anymore, and I so want to help you feel better about yourself from the inside out.

It seems that the better I felt about myself and the more I acknowledged who and what was in my life, especially through appreciation, the better my life got, and the more nice people I attracted into my life.

The more we “open up” and “lean into life” the more our life opens up and gives us what we want.

Again, it’s massively important to honour and deal with these negative beliefs “there’s no one out there for me, no one wants me etc etc” if you want to meet your new man.

Personally I use EFT (emotional freedom technique) with all my clients as I have never found a simpler, quicker, gentler way to resolve ANY negative beliefs that are holding you back in life.

And of course, I can help you so much more in letting go of these negative beliefs that hold you back from meeting the man of your dreams when you become an “Inside dater”

(More about the massive benefits of this below)

But you can also do a lot to help yourself by becoming aware of the power of energy

To benefit from the “law of love attraction” we have to be able to tap into the expansive energy.

This is the key that most people either don’t know about or don’t use to full advantage.

Energy is energy and it can’t be selective. Like attracts like. These are universal laws.

You have to be able to get yourself into the expansive energy in ANY area of your life, and that will have positive expansive effects in EVERY area of your life.

If you open a door in one area of your life, this opens the door in EVERY area of your life.

Once you’re in that expansive energy, you’ll be shocked by how many opportunities present themselves to meet new people.

You just have to get yourself out there into the flow to reap the benefits of life and yes, find … that new man you’re looking for 🙂

Find any way you can to get into ANY expansive energy.

Look for any opportunity to meet and connect with ANY other people.

I cannot tell you how important this is!

Disconnection from other people closes the door to opportunity.

Also if you have any “discord” with anyone else, try and diminish how you feel about this. You don’t necessarily have to kiss and make up or forgive, but see if you can “soften” how you feel about it for now or get a new perspective on it.

Even if you have to forget dating for a couple of weeks, I would like you to try this out for yourself. Focus on just “connecting” with other people.

Even for a short period of time. Even if it’s someone serving you in a shop. Make an effort to connect with EVERYONE you meet.

Without expectations of them reciprocating of course 🙂

Arrange to meet old friends, family members you get on with. Start saying yes to invites instead of telling yourself that it’s ok to sit in front of the computer or TV every night.

I really feel that “dis-connection” is what robs us of our quality of life and sucks the vitality right out of us.

Life doesn’t come to us, we have to get out there and take it.

If need be go home from work, have a little siesta, before getting out and connecting with other people at least a couple of times a week.

Now please don’t tell me that there is nowhere to go.

What about that salsa dance you’ve been meaning to learn forever? There’s no need to take a dancing partner with you unless you want to go with a friend, of course.

What about reviving old hobbies, or taking up a new interest or polishing a skill, cooking classes etc.

The purpose here is not to meet that dream man (though you might).

Your intention is to get into the expansive energy where opportunities abound!

Please let me know of any insights, or changes you’ve instigated to get into the expansive energy and more importantly, any feelings about being much more open to the possibility of creating new opportunity in your own life.

Yes, meeting that new man for one 🙂


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There’s no one out there for me.

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And I look forward to connecting with you very, very soon

Bill Tucker x

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