Insecure men will never put themselves into any situation where they could appear vulnerable.

Normal guys get affected by dating rejection or the fear of dating rejection but are not afraid to talk about it or share their feelings without the fear of being judged.

A few hallmarks of the insecure game player. (These are common scenarios from the dating sites.)

He can only chat during the day.

Unless he’s retired, if he’s only ever online during the day, he’ll probably be at work.

You really don’t want to be chatting to guys at work.

It’s very common for players to be boasting to their work colleagues and showing them your messages.

They just want to impress their mates and be Jack the lad.

These are also the guys that don’t turn up for the date because they’re otherwise taken, or too insecure to meet you face to face, and have no intention of showing.

They’re also unlikely to let you know – it’s all about them, remember.

I’m sure you’ve much better things to do with your time than interact with someone like that!

Another possibility with the daytime caller is that he’s already married or with a girlfriend and it’s not safe for him to be chatting online at home.

He suddenly disappears while chatting at night.

You’ve trusted him enough to connect with him on messenger or in a chat room and suddenly he clicks off, just disappears and doesn’t re-appear until the next day with a story that he lost his internet connection or whatever.

Maybe he heard his wife or girlfriend coming up the stairs (or his mum lol) when he’d told her he had work to do online.

You’ve got to ask yourself the question, “Who walked into the room he was in?

What’s he not meant to be doing?”.

Sudden silence.

Maybe you’ve been communicating with a guy and all of a sudden he drops off the radar only to reappear days or weeks later with some feeble excuse. Let him go.

He won’t tell you he’s been playing the field and thought the grass was greener on the other side with that girl over there.

Or maybe his ex was in town, and they were doing some intimate reminiscing.

You’re worth more than that, much more.

Here’s a true story one of my clients told me many years ago.

A guy who had some of the hallmarks mentioned above kept drifting in and out of communication.

This should have been a red flag already, but the lady carried on as she always gave people benefit of the doubt.

He had already not turned up on an arranged date with this lady (benefit of the doubt remember)

He arranged to meet her, they arranged to go to the beach. So far so good!

On the way from picking her up to the beach he said that he had to pop in to his house to put his answerphone on as he was expecting a business client to call him hic!

He asked her if she wanted to come in for a second rather than wait in the car (obviously wanting to impress her with his nice house to massage his status)

She thought that it would be a good idea to see how he lived.

He showed her into the front room while he went upstairs to the office supposedly putting the answerphone on.

She was looking around and saw some photographs on the floor in the corner of the room then noticed that there was some slight patches on the walls in the front room where the pictures may have been.

Intrigued, she took a quick look at the photographs and saw a picture of a couple in the same room as she was standing about the same age as the guy.

It really looked like they lived there.

She heard him coming down the stairs and quickly turned the pictures back round.

Even though her head was racing she said nothing.

They went to the beach and of course he just had to come past his house again on the way back and obviously invited her in for a coffee.

She made her excuses not to which started him sulking but she made him take her back to her car.

A few days later she thought she would take a drive past this house again and lo and behold there was this couple coming out of the house into their car.

She was fuming!

She went up to the couple and asked them if they lived there and of course they said yes, and asked her why she wanted to know.

She told them the story.

Now there were 3 people fuming.

They had asked him to look after their house while they were on holiday because the guy worked with the chap and seemed trustworthy they gave him the key and asked him to keep an eye on it when passing on his way to work.

This date actually lived with his mother elsewhere.

She got in touch and told him that she had met a couple of his friends who had said that it was a shame that they weren’t in when the “dating couple” popped in on the way to the beach.

Phone went silent!

The guy who actually lived in the house spread the story all around work, the “date” was the butt of ridicule and eventually left.

Seems the girl had a close shave and also got her own back

The dating world can be pretty tough for women at the best of times, but when you’re taking the knock backs, no’s, and rejections to heart, it can soon become a nightmare.

As in daily life, anything we take personally is really difficult to deal with.

But it’s highly likely the guy isn’t taking the ups and downs personally at all.

Stuff happens in people’s lives: work stuff, family stuff, health stuff. You can’t assume you’re the reason for someone else’s behaviour.

Assumptions are dangerous things.

They’re invariably wrong!

Let’s consider some of the reasons why guys don’t get back in touch:

• He’s too busy
• He’s met up with an ex, quite by chance
• He’s found another girl he’s more drawn to, or with whom he’s got more in common

Maybe he had the time and/or the money or even the health to be able to meet initially but his circumstances have changed. Some guys feel too embarrassed to admit that they can’t now do what they promised when they first got in touch.  

I’ve heard of guys with children who’ve had to give up on dating because their ex found out and threatened to stop them seeing their kids if they dated someone else.

Maybe there are colour or cultural differences between you both and someone in his family intervened (heaven forbid his mother) to steer them away from the relationship. The fact is, you don’t know what’s going on in his life when you build your hopes up that this guy might be the one.

Playing the field is, of course, very common on the dating sites.

• Maybe he’s just a game player
• Maybe he’s just unavailable and not able to commit to any relationship  

Men may want to or think they can, but when push comes to shove, they just can’t commit to one woman.

A lot of guys on the Internet dating sites, particularly the free ones, are like kiddies in a sweetie shop with way too much choice of goodies.

• “Look at this girl.”
• “No, look at this one.”
• “OMG, look at this one.”

Their attention spans are more gnat than goldfish!   

It’ll take a while or the 12th of never before they’re committed!

But taking it personally?

If you’re going to take it personally when he doesn’t call you when he said he would or stops communicating altogether, you’ll be like a learner driver trying to do their first hill start.  

          Forward a bit, no stop— oops, going backwards.

Stalled.       Start again, there I go — no, false start.

You get the gist.

Now the dreaded self-judgement comes out to play:

• It must be me
• I’m not good enough
• Or tall, or pretty, or whatever enough

Or whatever track keeps going round and round in your head.

Then here come the unhelpful negative beliefs:

• That’s what always happens to me
• I’m just no good at this dating lark
• I’m just no good in love 
etc etc.

Most of us take any form or rejection personally.

We’re human beings. That’s what we do!  

Then we find something to cling on to as a justifiable reason to beat up on ourselves!

It’s really beneficial to try and take some of this stuff less personally.

Not least because you’re potentially putting yourself out there and much more open for rejection.  

          Some you win. 

          Some you don’t.

          Next!

 That type of attitude is much easier on the emotions in dating.

Rejection is just a part of everyday life.

But in the dating world even tiny things that wouldn’t normally bother you seem to be right up there in front of your face.

Again, it’s not personal.

A profile isn’t much to go on. It may not even be honest.

A profile doesn’t tell you what’s really going on in a man’s life. It certainly won’t tell you what his fears and insecurities are. It’s the rare man who reveals his vulnerabilities in public!

You don’t even know who the guy really is in real life. There may only be an element of truth in there to go on. And remember, whatever is there will only be his best side!

I know it seems really strange when a guy who was all over you like a rash in the beginning suddenly shuts you out.

One week he’s sending you lovey-dovey messages a couple or more times a day, chatting late into the night on messenger, maybe even meeting up and starting to make plans for the future – then nothing.

One minute he’s filling up your inbox and the next minute you’re refreshing the dating site thinking that it must be down.

Maybe you had to beat him back with a big stick but now he won’t even return your calls.

If you’re going,  

          “What did I do wrong?”

          “What did I say?”

           “Maybe my mother was right, no man will want me.” Blah blah.

Know that this self-judgement, what you’re feeling because he doesn’t seem to want you now, is part of a long running story that goes way back, deep into your childhood.  

As children we soak up criticisms and put-downs like sponges and they erode our fragile self worth and made us feel “less than” about ourselves.

It’s a really good idea to soften how you feel about yourself so that you can let go of attracting the game players or the non-committal men.

Check in:  

• To discover if there’s a part of you that’s not fully congruent with committing to any man again for whatever reason.
• To look for any repeating patterns in past relationships.

Have the same stories been repeating for a while now?

Can you see similarities between the behaviour of your ex and the behavior of the guys you’re attracting?

Because the truth is:  

Nature always gives us another opportunity to heal our past pain. 

Now that’s a real bummer and, of course, we don’t want this to keep happening, BUT until we resolve or at the very least soften how we feel about this stuff then it is going to keep happening.

Nature doesn’t take any prisoners, and that’s just how it is.

Remember when your mother said, “Eat your vegetables, they’re good for you”? Nature does it’s own version. And that’s not to be taken personally either!

Do the best you can to be gentle on yourself.

Look for any repeating patterns going on in your dating.

Keep going back to the young origins of your self-judgements.

Check in:  

• How do you feel?
• How does his behaviour make you feel?
• Why is it, do you think, that you’re taking knock backs personally?

Even go back to the first boy who ever left you for another girl, the one who rejected you. He may even be your first true love, the one who broke your heart.

Don’t be fooled into thinking, 

“Well that was so long ago, it couldn’t possibly be affecting me now in the present tense.”

Human beings are too darned good at pushing down emotional pain. Sometimes we do it for life!

Maybe your dad walked out on your mum and you took it personally that, “My daddy didn’t love me.”

Don’t underestimate the importance of looking at the long catalogue of stories in our lives that are getting re-triggered in the present tense.

Different people    Different circumstances   Same old stuff

That stuff is what can be making you feel “less than” in some way, jilted, let down, left, rejected, not wanted.

Sometimes a man’s absence will make neither rhyme nor reason. The important thing is to be able to shrug your shoulders and deal with any of the criticisms and judgements that your past stories are dredging up to haunt you.

Acknowledge and honour those parts of you that feel “less than”. But don’t forget to acknowledge and honour the parts of you that feel good!

I can promise you that you are much more worthy than you could possibly imagine, and certainly worthy of much better treatment than the behaviour you’ve allowed yourself to feel bad about.

• Is there anyone in your life right now who you don’t want to see?
• Is there anyone you’re in any sort of conflict with?
• Can you think of anything or anyone you’re pushing away – “We don’t talk to that side of the family, so I can’t speak to her.”
• Are you in a situation you resent?
• Do you have a sense of injustice about anything?
• Are you experiencing any discord at all in your life – at work maybe?

We have to have closed doors somewhere in our life for doors to others to be
closed on us.

When we’re pushing anything or anyone away there is no space left
energetically for a new person to come in.

Resisting feeling ANY “negative” emotions or being unable to accept any situation in life that’s not going your way will block the flow of new people and situations coming into your life.

Holding any sort of grudge about anything or anyone is like living in a house and wanting to see a beautiful view outside the window but actually pulling the shutters down.

What’s going on with us energetically is SO important, and never more so than when we want to get into the “love attraction” zone which is an expansive “open energy”.

Resistance to “feeling” what you don’t want to feel, will put a wall up between you and that good guy.

And ANY blocked energy in your life will affect EVERY area of your life.

I really want to help you deal with any resistance you might be experiencing.

Our circumstances tell us where we are, and what’s going on. To change our circumstances we have to go inside and let some of this old stuff go to instigate the change we want in our life.

So let’s go inside together and look at what might need to change.

Resentments

Check in with yourself and see if there are any areas of your life where you’re pushing people away or putting the walls up energetically or physically to keep people at a distance.

If you find any resentment anywhere in your story, deal with that ASAP. It’s a BIG problem for everyone!

There’s an old saying in Alcoholics Anonymous: “Resentment is the number one offender in pushing someone back to a drink.”

Resentment eats away at people and makes them bitter.

Not a good place to be when you want to be in the open expansive energy of the “love attraction” zone.

How Are You Managing Your Emotions?

We’re emotional human beings. We’re not meant to feel happy or sad or feel love or any other emotion ALL the time. There’s light and there’s darkness, this is nature and everything in nature is moving.

The very word emotion means “energy in motion.” Emotions should be passing through (flowing) but the problem with human beings is that instead of allowing the emotion to flow, we resist feeling it and push it down.

Sometimes we even fear being overwhelmed by the emotion if we allow ourselves to feel it.

Do you judge negative emotions as bad things that have to be repressed?

Are you resisting your own feelings and emotions?

Over the years, I’ve heard many clients say they have this fear that if they don’t suppress/resist this “negative” feeling or emotion, they’re in danger of falling into a big dark tunnel. They fear they won’t be able to get back out,
fear they’ll go under.

It’s like trying to keep a lid on something there shouldn’t be a lid on.

Resisting or pushing down emotions causes us problems:

• we feel pain
  all resistance and suppression is pain
• our energy stops flowing in the way that is good for us
  our energy, like that of the Earth itself, is meant to be in motion

Whenever you feel the need to resist feeling any emotions at any time I want
you to check in and ask yourself these questions:

• “What just changed at a practical level before my feelings changed?
  Who or what was the trigger that changed how I feel?”

• “Who did I speak to, who did I hear from (or not).
• Was it something said or unsaid?”

Even a look from someone could be a trigger, even the tone of someone’s
voice.

Or…

• Was it a text?
• A phone call?

Even the sound of your ringtone could be a trigger

• Was it a message, a Facebook post etc?
• What did I hear?

Was it someone in person or on the radio/TV or internet?

• What did I witness?
• What did I see?
• What did I taste or smell?

Something has to change for our feelings to change for they are incapable of doing so by their own volition.

Check in by taking little steps backwards. Be your own crime scene detective to find out what just changed before your feelings or emotions changed.

Sometimes it’s glaringly obvious, but more often it’s so subtle it’s hard to
believe it could be that!

This is because we get triggered in the sub-conscious mind (because of our past memories) beneath our
conscious awareness.

But the good news in this is that when we join up the dots connecting the circumstantial change with the feeling then the “negative” feeling will subside. You might want a little pick-me-up after the revelation, so just find something that makes you feel good in the moment to give yourself a boost – anything or anyone you can appreciate.

Once you connect with the circumstantial change that just happened, you may discover you have to let something go that someone said or did.

Try to reframe whatever it was in a more gentle way to let it go more easily.

Ask yourself the question,

“Is this really so important in the greater scheme of things or have I just taken something too personally that wasn’t meant that way?”

Maybe it was an ex in the picture. That’s an easy way to get triggered, especially if he has found someone new and you haven’t as yet.

Trust that it’s the resistance to feeling how we feel that keeps us stuck in more and more resistant energy.

It’s the resistance that stops the flow of everything that’s good in your life (and in your love life).

Here’s a quick little awareness exercise that will help you to soften any “negative” feelings. 30 seconds may be enough;

Breathe in and out as slowly and as comfortably as you can while you observe the feeling and track where it is in your body. If it moves then just continue to focus on your breathing and follow the feeling in your body until it subsides.

If you’re visual, you could notice any colours, patterns, or shapes as you’re observing and follow them as they change.

Should the negative feeling come back just repeat this exercise as often as you feel the need.

But please also be aware that sometimes these feelings in our body may be trying to nudge us that a decision we are about to make about someone or something, is not quite right, or the timing isn’t right. When in doubt about making any decision, take smaller steps.

Any time you’re really in doubt, maybe no decision is the best decision to take right now!

Dealing with Fear

After the word “change”, expect fear to come knocking on the door! Whenever we have any upcoming change in our life, especially if it’s not of our own making, fear can appear very quickly.

Even as you make a decision to change or you find yourself in a situation where change is being imposed on you, ask yourself the question, “I wonder how long it’s going to take for fear to come knocking on the door? It will probably arrive quicker than a Domino’s pizza delivery.”

Acknowledge and honour and work through the fear as you see fit but without resisting or pushing the feelings down.

Remind yourself that it’s just a normal part of change:

Talk to your fear as you would a small child.

• Make fear your best friend.
• Communicate with it often.
• Remember it’s trying to serve you and keep you safe.
• The more you try to ignore, resist or push down fear, the louder it will
  scream.

Fear of Fear

For many of us, negative past experiences make our fear response a bit trigger happy

And then we end up fearing the fear, as if the fear is the bearer of bad news that must be feared like an omen.

It’s the resistance to feeling how we feel that causes the problem not the fear itself.

Call out the fear,

“Hello my old friend, how are you doing? I didn’t expect you back quite so soon. But thank you for being here. I think I’ve got a handle on the situation for now.”

“I sure appreciate your concern but things are working out okay right now. It’s good to know you have my back if I miss anything.

We can do this together.”

Sound strange?

You bet it does, but I have no doubt that resisting or pushing down the fear is
not working in the way you’d like it to.

The Danger of Suppressing How We Feel

We’ve got so used to suppressing how we feel that it’s almost become a national disease. You don’t have to look far to witness resistance to feeling the way we do or suppressing how we feel.

Have a look in your own life. How are you numbing your pain? With;

• Certain foodstuffs, drinks, cigarettes?
• Busyness, overwork?
• Drama – do you attract or create it?
• Self-abuse in any form, be that mental, emotional or physical, with substances?
• Playing the blame game?
• Being the perpetual student at the expense of your relationships?
• Staying in victim mode?
• Sex, shopping, gambling?

The list goes on & on.

Now take a compassionate look around you. I’m sure it won’t take you long to spot other people who are stuck in suppression. People in suppression are up to their tolerance level, and just have to numb out the pain by any means.

It takes a lot of courage sometimes to start acknowledging the suppression and the fear of being overwhelmed.

But acknowledgement is the first step in letting some of it go, and I can promise you that the more you manage to let go of any resistance whatsoever in your life, the closer (& quicker) that new guy will come to you.

Energetically, the presence of resistance is like talking to someone who puts their hands up in front of your face and says,

“I don’t want to hear anything that you say.”

This is the ultimate resistance and this is what we do to ourselves in subtle or big ways. But even the subtle amounts add up over time.

You may be saying by now, well, Bill, I just want that guy, I don’t want to have to look at any of this nonsense.

Good luck with that. Let me know how much longer you are willing to wait.

Letting the resistance go is how to open the door for your new guy to come through.

This is it! This is the quick way.

Make some breathing space for the energy to flow!

You don’t have to change everything. You just have to let go of some of the resistance.

You’ve already set your intention. He’s already waiting. You just have to let go of some of the stuck energy to let him in.

And if you’d like more of a helping hand, all the tools you need are here waiting for you to dive in deeper to let this old resistance pain go once and for all.

Surely YOU deserve better!

When we have those types of fears running in our life, then we can get stuck in relationships that don’t serve us.

They usually benefit other people, like the guys you are with, but relationships are not meant to be one sided.

This is a really tough way to have a relationship, continually giving your power away through this fear of ending up alone.

So the question is.

Do YOU find yourself getting stuck in relationships for way too long that don’t benefit you?

Maybe you can’t handle your own company, or you feel you NEED other people around you – lots of people really struggle with being on their own for any period of time.

Maybe it’s a financial fear – I can’t make ends meet on my own etc.

Maybe you NEED a man there to make you feel safe.

The problem is, if we become needy we’re continually giving our power away and you can end up getting into relationships that don’t serve you through the fear of ending up alone.

If being on your own for any period of time really freaks you out, try this awareness exercise.

Have a look back at your childhood to see where this fear of being on your own might have come from. You may well have to ask your parents if they are still in your life, as this fear may have started really young – even all the way back to the womb!

You can actually feel your mother’s emotions as a fetus, and if your mother had any rejection, separation, abandonment fear going on with your father when she was carrying you, then this could set up a predisposition for you to be really sensitive to any fear of separation or abandonment.

Such a predisposition could affect EVERY relationship you ever have from then on.

Also, way too often in hospitals, mother and baby are separated at birth and not for life or death medical care. This would never happen in nature. Did that happen to you?

Of course, if there was a real emergency and you had to be placed in an incubator, then potentially you are going to be extremely sensitive to any abandonment or separation.

This can make it really challenging for any relationship with a guy. He’s not likely to ‘get’ why you are so sensitive when he just wants some space.

Maybe your mother wasn’t able to bond with you when you were small. Maybe she was struggling with postnatal depression or just not able to connect in an emotional way.

Maybe your father was distant, or there was little in the way of hugs or communication.

Or were there drink or drugs or mental health issues going on with your parents? (very common unfortunately).

Maybe you became the needy child and carried that neediness on to adulthood and like to cling to the guys you have been out with.

It’s really important that as children we feel safe and it’s really challenging to feel safe when there’s unpredictable behaviour going on with our parents or we feel we have to walk around on eggshells.

Did you have to take a big breath in before you opened the front door after school?

Did you never know for sure what the reaction was going to be when you walked in?

Emotionally, we have to feel loved and accepted and if a child’s emotional needs are not met, then it’s perfectly understandable why that child would grow up needy.

But then we carry the neediness story into all our relationships through fear:

• Fear of him walking out,
• Fear of his unpredictable behaviour,
• Fear he’ll withhold his love and affection or even sex.

You may have been the apple of your dad’s eye and then at three years old a younger sister came along and you seemed to get less and less attention and felt pushed out, left out, ousted.

Or maybe your mum and dad separated when you were young, and as children do, you took it on yourself, thinking that it was your fault in some way.

Or if daddy left mum, did you think that meant he didn’t love you?

Have you become the needy one in a relationship that may have worked well in the beginning, especially if the guy was playing the saviour/rescuer/knight-in-shining-armour role, and loved you being all over him like a rash?

For most men the saviour role usually wears thin after a while when he finds out that he can never fill that void of neediness.

Most women that I have worked with over the years can’t even stand their own neediness let alone anyone elses.

Have a look back through your life at the repeating patterns in your relationships.

See if you can connect any patterns to fear of rejection, separation, or abandonment.

Know that any neediness connected to this abandonment fear, is not you.

It’s not your fault.

There are ALWAYS reasons why we behave in a certain way, and as ever the early life story is the predisposition for the fear and the behaviour that carries on being re-enacted all through our lives.

Or at least until we get a handle on the repeating story and make a choice as to how we want to play in our relationships from then on.

Awareness is always the first step, and well done for taking that one now.

Examine your most recent relationships.

See if you can spot any of the triggers that would put you into a spin of fear and negativity:

• Is it every time he comes home and seems a bit distant?
• Or a certain look?
• Or a particular tone of voice?
• Does he want to be with other people rather than you?

There’s great power in joining up the dots between the triggers in the present tense, then going back through your relationships to the earlier memories, and then softening how you feel about these fears in any way that feels right to you.

It’s really important to feel safe in any relationship.

If you are stuck in a dysfunctional relationship, just through the fear of ending up on your own, maybe it’s time to have a look at this one, track down where this fear came from and ask yourself if you are ready to let some of this fear go.

The benefit to you is that you are now making some “space” for the good guy that you deserve to come into your life!

As ever, I look forward to hearing any comments of what you have found that has been holding you stuck in  your own personal “fear of rejection, separation, abandonment story.”

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