Insecure men will never put themselves into any situation where they could appear vulnerable.

Normal guys get affected by dating rejection or the fear of dating rejection but are not afraid to talk about it or share their feelings without the fear of being judged.

A few hallmarks of the insecure game player. (These are common scenarios from the dating sites.)

He can only chat during the day.

Unless he’s retired, if he’s only ever online during the day, he’ll probably be at work.

You really don’t want to be chatting to guys at work.

It’s very common for players to be boasting to their work colleagues and showing them your messages.

They just want to impress their mates and be Jack the lad.

These are also the guys that don’t turn up for the date because they’re otherwise taken, or too insecure to meet you face to face, and have no intention of showing.

They’re also unlikely to let you know – it’s all about them, remember.

I’m sure you’ve much better things to do with your time than interact with someone like that!

Another possibility with the daytime caller is that he’s already married or with a girlfriend and it’s not safe for him to be chatting online at home.

He suddenly disappears while chatting at night.

You’ve trusted him enough to connect with him on messenger or in a chat room and suddenly he clicks off, just disappears and doesn’t re-appear until the next day with a story that he lost his internet connection or whatever.

Maybe he heard his wife or girlfriend coming up the stairs (or his mum lol) when he’d told her he had work to do online.

You’ve got to ask yourself the question, “Who walked into the room he was in?

What’s he not meant to be doing?”.

Sudden silence.

Maybe you’ve been communicating with a guy and all of a sudden he drops off the radar only to reappear days or weeks later with some feeble excuse. Let him go.

He won’t tell you he’s been playing the field and thought the grass was greener on the other side with that girl over there.

Or maybe his ex was in town, and they were doing some intimate reminiscing.

You’re worth more than that, much more.

Here’s a true story one of my clients told me many years ago.

A guy who had some of the hallmarks mentioned above kept drifting in and out of communication.

This should have been a red flag already, but the lady carried on as she always gave people benefit of the doubt.

He had already not turned up on an arranged date with this lady (benefit of the doubt remember)

He arranged to meet her, they arranged to go to the beach. So far so good!

On the way from picking her up to the beach he said that he had to pop in to his house to put his answerphone on as he was expecting a business client to call him hic!

He asked her if she wanted to come in for a second rather than wait in the car (obviously wanting to impress her with his nice house to massage his status)

She thought that it would be a good idea to see how he lived.

He showed her into the front room while he went upstairs to the office supposedly putting the answerphone on.

She was looking around and saw some photographs on the floor in the corner of the room then noticed that there was some slight patches on the walls in the front room where the pictures may have been.

Intrigued, she took a quick look at the photographs and saw a picture of a couple in the same room as she was standing about the same age as the guy.

It really looked like they lived there.

She heard him coming down the stairs and quickly turned the pictures back round.

Even though her head was racing she said nothing.

They went to the beach and of course he just had to come past his house again on the way back and obviously invited her in for a coffee.

She made her excuses not to which started him sulking but she made him take her back to her car.

A few days later she thought she would take a drive past this house again and lo and behold there was this couple coming out of the house into their car.

She was fuming!

She went up to the couple and asked them if they lived there and of course they said yes, and asked her why she wanted to know.

She told them the story.

Now there were 3 people fuming.

They had asked him to look after their house while they were on holiday because the guy worked with the chap and seemed trustworthy they gave him the key and asked him to keep an eye on it when passing on his way to work.

This date actually lived with his mother elsewhere.

She got in touch and told him that she had met a couple of his friends who had said that it was a shame that they weren’t in when the “dating couple” popped in on the way to the beach.

Phone went silent!

The guy who actually lived in the house spread the story all around work, the “date” was the butt of ridicule and eventually left.

Seems the girl had a close shave and also got her own back

The dating world can be pretty tough for women at the best of times, but when you’re taking the knock backs, no’s, and rejections to heart, it can soon become a nightmare.

As in daily life, anything we take personally is really difficult to deal with.

But it’s highly likely the guy isn’t taking the ups and downs personally at all.

Stuff happens in people’s lives: work stuff, family stuff, health stuff. You can’t assume you’re the reason for someone else’s behaviour.

Assumptions are dangerous things.

They’re invariably wrong!

Let’s consider some of the reasons why guys don’t get back in touch:

• He’s too busy
• He’s met up with an ex, quite by chance
• He’s found another girl he’s more drawn to, or with whom he’s got more in common

Maybe he had the time and/or the money or even the health to be able to meet initially but his circumstances have changed. Some guys feel too embarrassed to admit that they can’t now do what they promised when they first got in touch.  

I’ve heard of guys with children who’ve had to give up on dating because their ex found out and threatened to stop them seeing their kids if they dated someone else.

Maybe there are colour or cultural differences between you both and someone in his family intervened (heaven forbid his mother) to steer them away from the relationship. The fact is, you don’t know what’s going on in his life when you build your hopes up that this guy might be the one.

Playing the field is, of course, very common on the dating sites.

• Maybe he’s just a game player
• Maybe he’s just unavailable and not able to commit to any relationship  

Men may want to or think they can, but when push comes to shove, they just can’t commit to one woman.

A lot of guys on the Internet dating sites, particularly the free ones, are like kiddies in a sweetie shop with way too much choice of goodies.

• “Look at this girl.”
• “No, look at this one.”
• “OMG, look at this one.”

Their attention spans are more gnat than goldfish!   

It’ll take a while or the 12th of never before they’re committed!

But taking it personally?

If you’re going to take it personally when he doesn’t call you when he said he would or stops communicating altogether, you’ll be like a learner driver trying to do their first hill start.  

          Forward a bit, no stop— oops, going backwards.

Stalled.       Start again, there I go — no, false start.

You get the gist.

Now the dreaded self-judgement comes out to play:

• It must be me
• I’m not good enough
• Or tall, or pretty, or whatever enough

Or whatever track keeps going round and round in your head.

Then here come the unhelpful negative beliefs:

• That’s what always happens to me
• I’m just no good at this dating lark
• I’m just no good in love 
etc etc.

Most of us take any form or rejection personally.

We’re human beings. That’s what we do!  

Then we find something to cling on to as a justifiable reason to beat up on ourselves!

It’s really beneficial to try and take some of this stuff less personally.

Not least because you’re potentially putting yourself out there and much more open for rejection.  

          Some you win. 

          Some you don’t.

          Next!

 That type of attitude is much easier on the emotions in dating.

Rejection is just a part of everyday life.

But in the dating world even tiny things that wouldn’t normally bother you seem to be right up there in front of your face.

Again, it’s not personal.

A profile isn’t much to go on. It may not even be honest.

A profile doesn’t tell you what’s really going on in a man’s life. It certainly won’t tell you what his fears and insecurities are. It’s the rare man who reveals his vulnerabilities in public!

You don’t even know who the guy really is in real life. There may only be an element of truth in there to go on. And remember, whatever is there will only be his best side!

I know it seems really strange when a guy who was all over you like a rash in the beginning suddenly shuts you out.

One week he’s sending you lovey-dovey messages a couple or more times a day, chatting late into the night on messenger, maybe even meeting up and starting to make plans for the future – then nothing.

One minute he’s filling up your inbox and the next minute you’re refreshing the dating site thinking that it must be down.

Maybe you had to beat him back with a big stick but now he won’t even return your calls.

If you’re going,  

          “What did I do wrong?”

          “What did I say?”

           “Maybe my mother was right, no man will want me.” Blah blah.

Know that this self-judgement, what you’re feeling because he doesn’t seem to want you now, is part of a long running story that goes way back, deep into your childhood.  

As children we soak up criticisms and put-downs like sponges and they erode our fragile self worth and made us feel “less than” about ourselves.

It’s a really good idea to soften how you feel about yourself so that you can let go of attracting the game players or the non-committal men.

Check in:  

• To discover if there’s a part of you that’s not fully congruent with committing to any man again for whatever reason.
• To look for any repeating patterns in past relationships.

Have the same stories been repeating for a while now?

Can you see similarities between the behaviour of your ex and the behavior of the guys you’re attracting?

Because the truth is:  

Nature always gives us another opportunity to heal our past pain. 

Now that’s a real bummer and, of course, we don’t want this to keep happening, BUT until we resolve or at the very least soften how we feel about this stuff then it is going to keep happening.

Nature doesn’t take any prisoners, and that’s just how it is.

Remember when your mother said, “Eat your vegetables, they’re good for you”? Nature does it’s own version. And that’s not to be taken personally either!

Do the best you can to be gentle on yourself.

Look for any repeating patterns going on in your dating.

Keep going back to the young origins of your self-judgements.

Check in:  

• How do you feel?
• How does his behaviour make you feel?
• Why is it, do you think, that you’re taking knock backs personally?

Even go back to the first boy who ever left you for another girl, the one who rejected you. He may even be your first true love, the one who broke your heart.

Don’t be fooled into thinking, 

“Well that was so long ago, it couldn’t possibly be affecting me now in the present tense.”

Human beings are too darned good at pushing down emotional pain. Sometimes we do it for life!

Maybe your dad walked out on your mum and you took it personally that, “My daddy didn’t love me.”

Don’t underestimate the importance of looking at the long catalogue of stories in our lives that are getting re-triggered in the present tense.

Different people    Different circumstances   Same old stuff

That stuff is what can be making you feel “less than” in some way, jilted, let down, left, rejected, not wanted.

Sometimes a man’s absence will make neither rhyme nor reason. The important thing is to be able to shrug your shoulders and deal with any of the criticisms and judgements that your past stories are dredging up to haunt you.

Acknowledge and honour those parts of you that feel “less than”. But don’t forget to acknowledge and honour the parts of you that feel good!

I can promise you that you are much more worthy than you could possibly imagine, and certainly worthy of much better treatment than the behaviour you’ve allowed yourself to feel bad about.

When we have those types of fears running in our life, then we can get stuck in relationships that don’t serve us.

They usually benefit other people, like the guys you are with, but relationships are not meant to be one sided.

This is a really tough way to have a relationship, continually giving your power away through this fear of ending up alone.

So the question is.

Do YOU find yourself getting stuck in relationships for way too long that don’t benefit you?

Maybe you can’t handle your own company, or you feel you NEED other people around you – lots of people really struggle with being on their own for any period of time.

Maybe it’s a financial fear – I can’t make ends meet on my own etc.

Maybe you NEED a man there to make you feel safe.

The problem is, if we become needy we’re continually giving our power away and you can end up getting into relationships that don’t serve you through the fear of ending up alone.

If being on your own for any period of time really freaks you out, try this awareness exercise.

Have a look back at your childhood to see where this fear of being on your own might have come from. You may well have to ask your parents if they are still in your life, as this fear may have started really young – even all the way back to the womb!

You can actually feel your mother’s emotions as a fetus, and if your mother had any rejection, separation, abandonment fear going on with your father when she was carrying you, then this could set up a predisposition for you to be really sensitive to any fear of separation or abandonment.

Such a predisposition could affect EVERY relationship you ever have from then on.

Also, way too often in hospitals, mother and baby are separated at birth and not for life or death medical care. This would never happen in nature. Did that happen to you?

Of course, if there was a real emergency and you had to be placed in an incubator, then potentially you are going to be extremely sensitive to any abandonment or separation.

This can make it really challenging for any relationship with a guy. He’s not likely to ‘get’ why you are so sensitive when he just wants some space.

Maybe your mother wasn’t able to bond with you when you were small. Maybe she was struggling with postnatal depression or just not able to connect in an emotional way.

Maybe your father was distant, or there was little in the way of hugs or communication.

Or were there drink or drugs or mental health issues going on with your parents? (very common unfortunately).

Maybe you became the needy child and carried that neediness on to adulthood and like to cling to the guys you have been out with.

It’s really important that as children we feel safe and it’s really challenging to feel safe when there’s unpredictable behaviour going on with our parents or we feel we have to walk around on eggshells.

Did you have to take a big breath in before you opened the front door after school?

Did you never know for sure what the reaction was going to be when you walked in?

Emotionally, we have to feel loved and accepted and if a child’s emotional needs are not met, then it’s perfectly understandable why that child would grow up needy.

But then we carry the neediness story into all our relationships through fear:

• Fear of him walking out,
• Fear of his unpredictable behaviour,
• Fear he’ll withhold his love and affection or even sex.

You may have been the apple of your dad’s eye and then at three years old a younger sister came along and you seemed to get less and less attention and felt pushed out, left out, ousted.

Or maybe your mum and dad separated when you were young, and as children do, you took it on yourself, thinking that it was your fault in some way.

Or if daddy left mum, did you think that meant he didn’t love you?

Have you become the needy one in a relationship that may have worked well in the beginning, especially if the guy was playing the saviour/rescuer/knight-in-shining-armour role, and loved you being all over him like a rash?

For most men the saviour role usually wears thin after a while when he finds out that he can never fill that void of neediness.

Most women that I have worked with over the years can’t even stand their own neediness let alone anyone elses.

Have a look back through your life at the repeating patterns in your relationships.

See if you can connect any patterns to fear of rejection, separation, or abandonment.

Know that any neediness connected to this abandonment fear, is not you.

It’s not your fault.

There are ALWAYS reasons why we behave in a certain way, and as ever the early life story is the predisposition for the fear and the behaviour that carries on being re-enacted all through our lives.

Or at least until we get a handle on the repeating story and make a choice as to how we want to play in our relationships from then on.

Awareness is always the first step, and well done for taking that one now.

Examine your most recent relationships.

See if you can spot any of the triggers that would put you into a spin of fear and negativity:

• Is it every time he comes home and seems a bit distant?
• Or a certain look?
• Or a particular tone of voice?
• Does he want to be with other people rather than you?

There’s great power in joining up the dots between the triggers in the present tense, then going back through your relationships to the earlier memories, and then softening how you feel about these fears in any way that feels right to you.

It’s really important to feel safe in any relationship.

If you are stuck in a dysfunctional relationship, just through the fear of ending up on your own, maybe it’s time to have a look at this one, track down where this fear came from and ask yourself if you are ready to let some of this fear go.

The benefit to you is that you are now making some “space” for the good guy that you deserve to come into your life!

As ever, I look forward to hearing any comments of what you have found that has been holding you stuck in  your own personal “fear of rejection, separation, abandonment story.”

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I hear this more and more from ladies in their 40s upwards who had been married for most of their life, or maybe it’s been a long time since they have been in the dating scene.

Lots of women compare their first relationships and how they met guys back then, maybe through family and friends, at work, church, college, university, or through sports, hobbies, music, drama etc.

Back then, especially as we were growing up, we still lived in the local area and potentially knew a lot more people, but as we grow up people move away from their home town for various reasons and don’t tend to have such a big circle to draw on.

Back then when you were dating, I guess that most of your friends were single in the same situation and dating was just a normal part of life.

And of course for most of us in mid life, there was no internet dating back then, because there was no internet.

I know we didn’t even have a telephone in our family as I was growing up.

When people get married it is all too easy to lose touch with friends, especially after having children, then most folks become more family insular with most of their time taken up with being there for the children.

Later on after breaking up with your husband or last partner, you realise that you have a very small circle of available men to connect with.

You have to do something!

And then you hear of internet dating from one of your friends and with a bit of persuasion, you tiptoe into the realms of the unknown.

Now like anything new, this can be scary for the first time. Especially with the fear mongers recounting their last horror stories to you.

And of course, like anything in life, there are advantages and disadvantages and maybe you have found out a few of those already.

But there are disadvantages in the offline world as well. Most women that I speak with who are a little bit older, as well as some younger, feel really uncomfortable walking into a bar on their own or even with a female friend.

But if you did pluck up the courage to venture into the bar and if you did see a guy you liked the look of, the next problem is, until you introduce yourself and start a conversation, you don’t know anything about him.

Not all married men wear a ring for instance, most guys with girlfriends don’t wear a ring either. There could be lots of reasons when after an initial introduction and spending some time together, you truly wished you hadn’t.

Finding out the basics about a guy can be a slow process.

Sure you get to see him in 3D and not just a selfie picture, but it does take a bit of time to go through your mental check list while trying to look casual at the bar.

And of course at the end of the night if there was any sort of connection at all, and you wanted to see him again. There would have to be some form of exchange of personal details like, phone number, email, Facebook profile etc.

But you still don’t know a lot about him. Apart from your gut instinct. And can you trust your gut after the past failures in love?

You know that you never want to be exchanging details or even going out with any guy that you don’t trust or feel safe with for any reason. Period!

Online you have at least some of the relevant details to fill in your check list. Assuming there is some truth in his profile that is

Not to mention the past their sell by date pictures!

I heard of one guy in Glastonbury UK who went out on a date with a friend of mine who turned up on the first date with a tiny bar of cadburys chocolate and wearing a moustache.

Now, nothing wrong with that you may say, even though this guy had a clean upper lip on his profile picture.

Having a drink at the bar with him and pressing him on the mustache and lack of resemblance to the profile picture, this jerk finally admitted that the picture belonged to his better looking brother which of course is the reason why he thought it would be acceptable to use that one instead of his own.

She finished her drink, slipped the tiny bar of chocolate in her pocket and left him at the bar.

He tried to follow her out muttering that he didn’t know what the problem was and that she was overreacting.

As in life, anytime someone describes themselves, just take it with a pinch of salt, while also looking for the best in people.

Obviously everyone wants to show their best side when meeting someone new.

But a woman is much better than a man at using all her senses to know what’s right and what’s wrong. The problem sometimes comes in following through though.

For our own expectations and judgements can play havoc with our senses.

Now back to the fear that someone will judge you for meeting your new man on a dating site.

Which of course is none of their business in the first place, but we are all human beings and seem to care way too much what other people think of us.

Time moves on, and would we want to go back to the days of the old black and white TV’s, and no internet. The internet is truly a gift when we use it wisely.

Imagine if someone told you 50 years ago that you could sit anywhere in public, at home, on a train, a bus, and connect via your laptop/Ipad/tablet and communicate with anyone anywhere in the world (not to mention, meet your potential partner).

How awesome is this gift!

We couldn’t even have imagined how our life could be transformed.

And here we are with some folks looking at internet dating as if it is something to be shunned as if there is something wrong with it and the people who use it. How strange!

This fear of being judged by people who found out how you met your guy is easily solved. YOU don’t have to tell them anything!

If you arranged to have a first date at a cafe or pub, then from then on, to all intents and purposes. That is where you met your man.

Of course you can tell your trusted friends who have open minds in the 21st century that you met your guy through internet dating.

But to any of those judgmental folks, tell them what you want. It truly has nothing to do with them. Even if it’s family members!

But of course you also have to deal with how YOU feel about where you met this new guy.

Because if it is a big judgement thing for you, then it will also be for other people. But if you are comfortable with it, then there is no problem whatsoever.

You will also be hard pushed to not meet anyone in recent dating times, who has used internet dating or doesn’t know of anyone who met someone via internet dating.

You will also meet many couple who are more than happy letting you know that they met each other online. And they don’t even bat an eyelid when telling you.

The truth is when you can acknowledge yourself for being proactive to change your life for the better, then the less it will bother you what other people think.

Would you rather be alone and not wanting to be, or taking action and be open to the possibilities of meeting the man of your dreams.

There are always going to be judgmental people in the world. In fact, the world could do with a few less.

Bear in mind that when someone is judgmental about others, that tells you what they think of themselves. The more they judge themselves, the more they judge other people.

It can’t be otherwise. 

Or if you find yourself judging yourself a bit too harshly, you are going to end up judging other people.

You know what it’s like when you are having a kind “me” day and feeling good about yourself, then everyone else seems to be so much nicer and you start noticing nice qualities in them that you didn’t notice before.

Judgement is massive in society. It’s so insidious and seems to be woven into the fabric of western society. This gets handed down from family to family and it’s just a means of externalising their pain, to judge another human being.

Judgement is also a means of control.

You can control anyone through fear of judgment if you start them young enough.

Look around you to see how much judgment or fear of judgment there is in society, from the church, the government, police, courts, school, and of course in your family.

It’s perfectly understandable where all this stuff comes from being handed down through the centuries, and of course not so long ago if you were judged to be wrong/bad in any way you could be ex communicated from the church/village and sent out to starve.

So our job is to get out and stay out of the judgement pain as much as we possibly can or at the very least, soften any judgement that we feel on ourself and the judgement pain that was handed down to us as children to keep us under control.

As you may know, I am passionate about taking action as this is when all the magic happens in our life.

But only when we start IMPLEMENTING this knowledge rather than just reading it.

For without implementation, knowledge is useless.

Try this as a daily exercise for a week.

I want you to be the observer of how often you judge yourself. In any way large and small, every day.

Make a note, but without judging yourself for noticing yourself judging yourself

Just be the observer.

Now for the next week, I again want you to be the observer, now noticing everyone around you and how often they appear to judge you, themselves or anyone else.

This two week exercise will blow you away.

It is sad and humbling at the same time.

But also massively beneficial, to witness first hand how much vital energy is used up in punishing ourself and other people through judgement and blame rather than honouring our own judgement and letting other people be to live their own life.

I will take a guess that you will now look at fellow human beings with much more compassion than you ever did before. And hopefully yourself as well.

I truly want you to soften how you feel about this fear of being judged by other people by softening the judgement you have upon yourself.

This was all dumped on you in childhood by the way.

If you wanted to take the quick route to soften any self judgment of fear of being judged by others then I would love to be able to help you even more than I can here.

While becoming the best version of you that you possibly could be.

And honour yourself right now for being here.

Because I have never heard of anyone being judged for taking proactive action to improve their life.

And that includes you meeting the man of your dreams.

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In the membership area you can feast on an abundance of personal “practical” videos from myself in the 3 most important areas of dating …

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Working with thousands of people over the last 15 years and more I have learned that it’s MASSIVELY important as human beings that we feel as though we belong.

You are literally just a mouse click away from being able to benefit from the life changing content in

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1.. Dating

How to attract a GOOD MAN in the shortest possible time.

And by taking the simple steps that I have laid out for you in a series of videos, I will also help you become the fun, confident woman who’s irresistible to any man!

How much fun will your dating be then

Here’s a small sample of the transformational videos in the Dating section …

The self judgement that stops that guy coming close.

No man will like me.

Feeling used in relationships.

Are your trust issues getting in the way of love.

Fear of rejection/separation/abandonment.

Frustration/disappointment in love.

Self sabotage in dating.

Are your past relationship/failures holding you back from finding love.

The 4 biggies in relationships … Trust-Communication-Respect-Passion.

There’s no one out there for me.

The differences between men and women.

Feeling good about yourself is the key that opens the door to let that man walk through.

And many many more …

2.. Relationships

Once you have your good man, this part of the membership area will help you make sure that you keep him

Remember your old issues haven’t gone away, they will be waiting to come to the surface at the first opportunity.

I take you by the hand to resolve any of those past issues that could sabotage your new relationship in this section.

As well as helping you understand much more than you ever did before about the subtle art of communication in relationships.

For instance, I will help you understand the 4 most important aspects in ANY “love” relationships.

These are …

Communication – Trust – Respect – Passion

I will help you get these four right, and I guarantee you, when you understand these four, YOU will NEVER have to struggle in ANY relationship with ANYONE ever again.

Here’s a small sample of the transformational videos in the Relationship section …

Developing healthy boundaries.

Attracting guys who lack emotional maturity.

The I’m not enough story.

Fear of rejection.

Self judgement.

Trust issues.

Can’t let go of my ex.

Fear of intimacy.

Self worth.

Judgement and taking things personally.

Fear in relationships & in life,

… and much much more.

3.. Health

Specifically, how our relationship issues affect our health.

(and they do in really specific ways)

And more importantly what we can do at the practical level to resolve them.

This is where you will find an absolute gold mine of knowledge (most of which you’ve probably never heard before) along with my own personal experience of successfully working with thousands of men, women and children with health issues over the last 12 years and more.

And what’s more, all of this costs around the same as some of the old dating advice membership sites.

If you have ANY health issues or body image issues that hold you back from feeling confident in meeting your new man, you will find all the solutions here in this health section

Here’s a small sample of the transformational videos in this section …

Issues like … IBS, digestive issues, allergies, phobias, feeling pushed out, water retention, depression, separation/skin issues, thrush, tiredness/exhaustion, cystitis, headaches, migraines and many, many more.

And of course,  I will be guiding you in ALL of these videos with practical solutions to resolve what you are truly ready to let go of.

Click on The Link Below To Find Out More

www.datinginsidesecrets.com

I look forward to connecting with you very, very soon

Bill Tucker x

© Bill Tucker & Dating Inside Secrets 2019